I sat down one more time with our friend David Daniel Diaz on how he felt about being so close to graduating. Finally, his Associate’s Degree in contemporary music emphasizing drums and percussion is in his hands.
1.) What does it feel like being so close to graduating?
It is an indescribable feeling to get to this point. I never thought it would happen so fast! I’m proud of myself and I want to thank all the people that were part of this, if it weren't for them I wouldn't be where I am now. You know who you are.

2.) How long have you been in M.I. (Musicians Institute)?
I have been at MI for a year and a half.

3.) What were some of the challenges that you had to face?
Plenty of challenges here at MI, both emotionally and academically. When you first come to the school you come usually because you were one of the best drummers in your hometown. As soon as school starts then you realize that you have A LOT to learn! So your pride gets crumbled to the ground but then you get brought up again, but it’s fun and very challenging at times learning new things you never thought you'd learn before.

For a while I also lived in Van Nuys while going to school which forced me to take the bus to school. It got really hard at times because to get to school I had to take two buses and it was about an hour long bus ride! That made it harder because I couldn’t practice when I felt like it and I had to leave before it got too late; and the bus wasn’t the safest place at night either. So at times if I had a late rehearsal I’d have to stay at school all night or find a friend’s place to stay at. I did what I had to do!

4.) What do you plan on doing after graduation?
I am involved in three serious projects (bands) at the moment and I believe in them enough to go out and see how far I can take these groups with what I have. I am also going to start teaching both private lessons and at a school in West Covina that will be centered at a church called Vision De Fe Internacional.

5.) Are you planning on going back to school any time soon?
Not at this moment. The way I feel about life right now makes me feel like I have nothing to lose! So I wan to give it my all and just see what happens. I’m very young and I feel like I have nothing to lose! So at the moment no school, but I am interested in eventually getting my Master’s in music.

6.) What do you feel that have accomplished thus far?
I feel like I am just better at my craft and closer to my passion and what I love to do! After all that is my goal in life, to just better my craft and make it as great as it can possibly be, everything else will come on its own.


NEVER GIVE UP! DO WHAT U LOVE TO DO! and most of all LOVE WHAT U DO! -David

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nice to be here.... thanks for share

Great interview! He's a role model for kids like us.

It would be great if you could do more interviews with students who graduated from college and ask them about what they learned. Like how did they make friends and how did thye chose their majors and such.

funny, i had a similar experience. I was an A student at my school in the DR and didn't need to study much and got admitted at UPenn and the first year here was HORRIBLE as i couldn't even catch up with my peers...

Good for you David! Many of us who love music or art are struggling to decide if we should follow our passions or the money and it's great to see you followed your passion and hopefully that will lead to you making money. I'm with you on this!

Where can we hear you play?

David is currently in A LOT of projects but you can check out one of his bands, JAYAR. Just go to myspace and some music is uploaded as well as days for some shows here in California.

As a generation that is focused on immediate-gratification, social networks, and text messages, one-on-one interaction is limited. We have lost the social skills needed to adequately interact in this constantly evolving, competitive environment.

The skills that you acquire through personal communication can not be traded in or learned through a virtual class, but by taking speech classes, interacting, calling instead of texting, and opening up to friends to become a more sociable person.

We tend to stress over job interviews and auditions, not because we feel inadequate but because we no longer have the skills to clearly and concisely communicate our ideas, beliefs, and dreams.

I stress to you, dig yourself out from the hole you’re in and dare to call someone instead of texting them. Step out from your box and dare to be an open person. Don’t loose the tender touch of humanity.

No one said it would be comfortable to step out of the box that we’ve put ourselves in, but it is a great lesson to be learned and a skill that will lead us to achieve great things. It will help us beyond our career, but in networking, making friends, even finding that special someone.

Dare to communicate with others in person, not only via technology.

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When are we going to practice our duets? In person, that is. :D

I agree toooooooootally!! Most of my friends are attached to their phones and text to each other across the table instead of speaking to each other!It's so lame...

For some peopel texting is easier 'cause they don't wanna socialize period. I wonder how they are going to have a job interview? Via text?

Exactly!!!!
I've realized that for so many people it is so hard to express themselves. They feel scared, and because texting is an easier, safer way. There is no real rejection, and a real conversation doesn't exist.

When you text back you talk with a 10 min. gap, somepeople leave hours inbetween.

So don't text as much!!!! Be sociable.
And pass the word around :]

A new year has arrived, and with it new challenges to overcome and dreams to reach. A new year also means the beginning of a new semester. The frost of winter break is melting away and a new perspective has kicked in to open as many doors as possible. By this I mean to go out and grab every opportunity out there, begin to network because the possibilities for success are endless. If you are truly committed to the field you’ve chosen to major in look for professionals who will lead you in the right direction, possibly someone who can mentor you and open doors. My advice is to put more than just your foot in the door; put every limb possible!
Maybe you’re uncertain of where to begin walking towards success. Well, here are some tips that have personally helped me.
1.Get involved in school. Maybe join the dance team, ASB (Associated Student Body), the school newspaper, sports or whatever club relates to your field. This allows you to make friends and get to have a closer relationship with professionals in that field.

2.Speak clearly about your career goals. When you talk to people and the topic about career choices comes up, be assertive! For example, when I speak about my major to a stranger or to a professional I seek I speak clear and concisely about my career goals. I say things such as: “I want to major in communications with an emphasis in Public Relations. I love to write and interact with people so I feel this career is well suited for me.”
This isn’t a magical formula for success but what you’ve done is opened another door for yourself. You never know what networks the person you’re talking to has, and if an opportunity comes up they will surely have you in mind. Thanks to taking this step I have been able to meet new people and many professionals such as the chief editor of the Whittier Daily News, I’m currently a part of the Latinos in College team, I participate in seminars as a speaker, and so on.

3. Look for internships that you can apply to and, if you are still unsure of what career path to take, reach out to professionals in various industries.

4. A great opportunity to learn more about a specific field of work is to shadow a professional for a day or a week. This creates a working relationship (and maybe even a mentorship relationship) and when an opportunity arises, these people will tend to think about the student who showed initiative and with whom they have a relationship.

5. If you don’t feel confident about particular choices you are making in college or in a high school, talk to you counselor, or professors working in your area of interest. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, or to ask for advice from someone you respect and who can offer constructive criticism. You only limit yourself when you shy away from making decisions that will positively affect your future. Because I assure you, LO PUEDES HACER!
And like my mom always says, “El no ya lo tenes, buscate el sí.”

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Are there some good ways to use MySpace and Facebook to network with professionals? For our generation is easier to communicate technologically tahn in person. What could be a good compromise?

My mom heard Ms.Dabbah speak on CNN yesterday and said I should check this site out. It's pretty cool. Can you give me advice on how to network to get into an Ivy league schools?

Rick, you are completely right and this will be the topic of my next blog.

My advice, take a speech class, possibly if you're into improvisation take an acting class or a modern dance class. What improvising does shows your true self and helps break the barriers that don't allow you to interact with the world.

Everyone can communicate, but not everyone can connect

get away from your electronics, raise your eyes and you'll find lots of people around that you can network with and who can open doors. Our generation is waaaaaaaaaaaay too focused on socializing online. the jobs are still out there and we'll eventually have to meet real people in the real world!

I'm shy as well and what has worked for me is to practice what I want to say before I meet people.

I here people talk about networking all the time. I just dont knowhow to di it well. I'm a researcher not much of a people person, so is hard. And i need a job because I graduate in May...

Osvaldo,
one thing is being shy, another thing is being confident and assertive about the future and your goals. You have to break that barrier, because employers, professors and professionals in the field will always choose an assertive person over someone who is doubting themselves. It's all about attitude.

Julissa,
yes adults may have some ideas of our generation, but they also know that there are a few who really work hard, study hard and get what they want. When you step into an interview you should not show a pleading attitude, it's all about confidence and knowing what you want. Employers can read you like an open book. You want to make sure to leave your mark, something that will stand out from the rest.

Always be an agreeable, friendly and confident person. This ALWAYS draws peoples attention.

Great! Thanks it helped so much!!!

How do you approach poeople when your shy like me?

I find that a lot of adults have fixed ideas about our generation and they think we are lazy. On top of that, now with thi horible economy they think we are out to take their jobs so many of them are not so willing to help. Any suggestions on how to break this situaiton?

This is the time of the year where holiday shopping and great feasts are on your mind. Where spending time with your family has now become a special bonding time but for most college students this also means finals; that is if you’re on a semester system. You begin to realize that you’re not doing so well in your classes, and you desperately wish that you hadn’t slept in all those days. This time around it has been an eye-opening opportunity for me.
With plans to transfer getting closer and closer, every single class counts, and every single grade can either make or break my G.P.A. and I had to make a crucial decision. Do I continue in this math class (that I wasn’t doing so well in) or should I withdraw and start fresh? This was an extremely hard decision for me, because dropping this class would mean that I was not getting closer to transferring to a 4-year school.

After much thought and advice from some professors I decided to drop the class.
At first I was so disappointed and distraught, “dang it, another year here at a community college” but my mindset quickly altered. I realized that I still didn’t have the sufficient funds in order to go to college. Staying at this community college would allow me to attain an AA in dance, improve my technique and most importantly, I would be able to write for the school paper. Yes life has many twists and turns, ups and downs but it’s up to us to provide these obstacles with meaning and purpose.
This experience has taught me an invaluable lesson beyond being more responsible: that perseverance is critical to my success. Sure transferring is going to take longer but I can take classes in other fields or areas to where I need help. And maybe now I can live a little more, be more involved at school and FINALLY catch up with the much needed zzz’s.
So , if you’re going through a difficult decision making process, my advice to you is that you take a deep breath and look at all the pros and cons to your decision. Think outside the box and with a positive perspective, nothing is ever in vain… that is, if you learn from your experience.

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Hey Lakisha
well ya my winter break is almost over and ya I'll be posting new interviews and videos and YES send me your video or you story. We would love to have it and post for everyone to see.

Hey Bianca, how is your winter break going? Mine's almost over and I look forward to reading your blogs and interviews. Maybe you can post some videos? And maybe we could send our videos in as well?

Happy new year everyone! this is an awesome website and your blog rocks!

Good luck to all of you with your finals! I hope we all keep our grades up and balance our study/work better so you don't have to take drastic measures like dropping a course. Bianca, do you dance ballet or other type of dance?

Well I'm just happy that I've come out of this experience alive and learning something. There is always a greater purpose in life as long as you find it. But dropping the class does not affect you g.p.a because there is no grade, but if you don't drop it and miss class then yes, the F will show on your transcript. Community colleges are a great way to get involved in your community and to improve your grades. And in regards to working full time and studying, you have to time manage. It's one of the hardest things to do but, one of the best things to learn. I work too but I've learned to prioritize my daily activites.

Sorry you had to drop your class. I'm a senior in high school. What happens to your grades when you drop a class? It doesn't count in your GPA? Or it counts as an F?

My grades are not that gerat. I'm working full time and have littel time to study and I'm afraid I'll endup quitting school. You seem to have turened it around. Any ideas on what to do? I'm also in community college in Florida.

I'm sorry to hear your story. Sometimes it's hard to keep up with everything but you have to try even harder as the longer it takes you to graduate, the more likely it is for you not to fulfill your education goals. Good luck to you!

Do you think that community college is a place where you can improve your grades before you go to a four year university? I don't have a very high GPA but would liek to go to school.

Campus safety is EXTREMELY important. Taking the necessary steps to protect yourself will ensure your safety and future while giving you a wonderful college experience. Here are some tips:

• Stay with a group of people. Avoid walking alone as much as possible.
• Avoid risky spots, such as deserted area. You always want to stay in well lit areas.
• Keep your hands free, not overloaded. Put your books away, or anything that can impede you from moving freely or defending yourself.
• Have your keys ready and your cell phone ready to dial 911.
• Arm yourself with mace or pepper spray if you walk alone to class.
• Know your surroundings at all times. Be aware!
• Attach a personal alarm to your key chain that can be sounded if someone is following you.

Sure, these seem like some small tips but they can ensure your safety. Just because we think our campus is safe, or we feel confident that nothing will ever happen to us doesn’t mean that you should take your safety lightly so make sure you know where the police headquarters are located at school. Follow these tips, stay safe, and make college a memorable experience!

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Safety is of the utmost importance on everyone's mind, especially parents. Parents who have become accustomed to seeing their children at home everyday and now see their children going away to college are fearful. The fear parents have usually stems from not knowing. You may ask, "Not knowing what?" The answer: Not knowing everything! The biggest and most obvious issue is communication or the lack of it. Sometimes, parents that are resistant to the thought of their children going away to college fear that you will not let them know when you are experiencing difficult times or are involved in conflict. Now is the perfect time to have a serious talk with them about how you will be communicating with them, how often and through what means. Parents need to be reassured that you will include them and that you will keep that window of communication open. These are actually the beginning steps to independence for both you and your parents. When they see that you have kept up your word to dialogue regularly in whatever fashion you mutually agree upon, they will come to respect your decision which will also lead to mutual trust. So, the key to a smooth transition is to start with........open communication.

My parents are getting more and more concerend with me going away to college because of security issues. Any advice on how to convince them to let me go???????

We are being faced with hard times and times of uncertainty but still we can't let that control our future. If your parent's feel scared of letting you go to college then you should looking for schools that provide great safety.Try to ease their concerns and put your safety first.

It's more than just convincing your parents, they are scared for a reason and you should be too but you should take the appopriate measures to protect yourself from these dangerous situations.

Find a school that provides great safety and security.

There's been so many incidents reported on the news that my mom is thinking of pulling me out of school and making me come back to a college near our house!!! I wish there was somethng i could do to convince her that our campus is Ok and that I'm safe

It's also smart to avoid coming back drunk to your dorm because you are not aware of who's following you or who you end up inviting into your room that my end up hurting you. I think that if people drink they should always be with a friend whodoesnt

A nerve-racking experience for college students is meeting your new professor. This person will hold the key of your success, will determine how many hours you will spend studying and slaving away, or if you graduate on time or not. Sure, the college instructors have degrees and have worked hard to get to where they are, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re the best match for you.
Have you ever been stuck with a horrible professor that is an incredibly hard grader? Maybe you’ve had a professor who has a menacing attitude or when asking a question they made you feel dense. If that’s the case, I TOTALLY understand. One of my instructors is a real platter—I find myself praying every morning just for the strength to get up and go to class… yes it’s that bad.
But for the rest of you that will be soon deciding what class to take, here’s a helpful tip in choosing the professor that is right for you: www.ratemyprofessor.com gives you access to former students’ experience with a specific professor, and believe me they tend to be right. I looked up the rating for my instructor and the ratings were horrible, but I was naïve and took it anyway. BIG mistake! So before you flunk a class or take on a massive work-load check the site out, it will save you some unnecessary tears.

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Hehe I think you meant to say Bianca, Carol is the other online editor. But if that comment was for me I really appreciate it. I always try to bring something new and intersting to the table and I'm glad you read :]

I like the topics you write about. I come here often and always find soemthing interestnign. Maybe you can write about how to get the attention of your guidance counselor when he doens't think you're college material. thanks Carol. And thanks to Latinos in College.

Yeah it great! And every students writes and leaves comments about previous professors. So you also read about awesome professors and the way they teach.

I didn't know this site existed! How cool! Will you use it in the future now that you know it works?

Standing out in a stack of college applications is tough. Many times applicants’ grades, SAT scores and even extracurricular activities look the same. But what can make you stand out? A strong college admissions essay. Sometimes our grades or activities overwhelm the panel of judges reviewing your application, yet at the end of the day they are more interested in getting to know the real you. Admission essays are crucial in defining who you are; it lets them hear your voice.
A well developed essay can answer questions raised by incomplete or seemingly conflicting information from an application form. More importantly, a good essay conveys a sense of the applicant as an intelligent, motivated and interesting person, someone the college wants to have as a member of its community. Because there is so much at stake, these essays can be very frustrating, overwhelming and time consuming so here are some tips to help you rise above a sea of papers.

*I can’t stress enough the importance of not procrastinating. If you decide to write this essay at the last minute I can almost assure you that the chances for you to stand out will substantially diminish.
*Ask college professors or people you trust to edit your essay. By including them in your writing process your essay will become stronger. Many times we aren’t our best critics, we’re too soft on ourselves so outside readers will give you an objective perspective.
* Brainstorm! I may not be a fan of doing this but I can vouch that it will help you organize your thoughts. By then turning these thoughts into clear sentences you create a “bone” structure and as you add-on the “meat” begins to fill it. It is extremely important that your admissions essay be concise and well organized, but don’t forget to keep your style. Let them know who you are, what you’re capable of, let them hear you out.
Here are some websites that can offer you a helping hand in this process. Dig in!

http://www.collegeessays.info/essay-strategies.php
http://www.collegeboard.com/student/apply/essay-skills/index.html
http://www.quintcareers.com/college_application_essay.html

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Julie,
brainstorming is a process you can do on your own or have a professor help you out. You should look for help with a professor that you are comfortable with. If this is not your case, then look for another peer that can edit your work.

Essays are the best way to stand out because some schools don't have the option to interview, but yes if the school has that option... TAKE IT!


And Daniela, you are totally right, thanks for adding on some more helpful tips. ;]

I was warned about some of the things we should NOT do in our eassays:
NEVER talk about how you overcame your parents divorce (if it apllies to you) because imagine how many are going to write about that...boring!
DO NOT use slang words unless quoting or using examples.
DO NOT be informal!! You are not talking to your friend, you are talking to your dream school!!! So use your AP knowledge, MLA style, and high vocabulary words.

Make sure that you talk about something out of the ordinary; an anecdote, something you did that changed you as a person or your perspecrtives. A narravitve essay is always the best option because 1)you show your style of thinking, writing, expression, and personality. 2) They will be interested in finishing reading it because they would want to know the "happily ever after" or outcome of the story. 3) Because many people will write about their abilities, awards, and overall achievements; which all of these happen to be on the application, so why do it again?!!??!

there some other helpful tips :]

I agree with you that is hard to brainstorm because you don't really want to talk about how great you are with some people ;-) but who do you recommend I do this with? It sounds weird to do it with a teacher...

I'm not sure my essay will stand out from the crwod, but what about taking the in person interveiw? Is alwasy an option, isn't it?

For Hispanic students, as for every student, it is important to be well-informed in order to be aware of all the opportunities out there and to make adequate use of the resources available to them. For high school seniors (and college students seeking to transfer) it is time to ask, “What school is best for me?”
Your area of interest or major plays a big role in this decision, but have you ever wondered, “What school has a greater graduation rate for Hispanics?" Well here is a website that might help you with your decision.
The Hispanic outlook in higher education magazine has published the Top 100 colleges awarding degrees to Hispanics for 2008. To know if a school close to home falls in this list
check out the website http://www.hispanicoutlook.com/top100_focus.htm?section=m.
You’ll see the rank of the school clearly presented along with its location and the total number of degrees both undergrad and masters awarded to Hispanics.
If you’re in search of quick and simple answers you should also check out the Hispanic Association of Colleges and Universities website. The website will also show you all the universities and colleges in the United States that offer your major by alphabetical order. In addition, this site provides an estimate of tuition costs. Check it out! http://www.hacu.net/hacu/College_Search_EN.asp?SnID=1447344833
It is so important for us to be knowledgeable about college. We should try our best to find every door and opportunity that we can. We can give you the tools to do so, but only you have the power to use them. Let me know if this is helpful or if you have any ideas. I would love to know what you’re interested in reading because after all, these blogs are for you the reader.

Until next time, Bianca.

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I read there's a report by Pew Hispanic Fund about the difference between Latino students aspirations for college and the rate at which they actually go and graduate. Anybody has comments on this?

This really helps.I've been wondering which schools were best for Latinos. But I also wonder if I should go to a really really great college like Yale even if they don't have too many Hispanics there. I'm thinking it's such a great school, if I work hard I have to do well. Does that make sense?

Do you suggest we study in these kinds of institutions? Or this is just one more thing to think about when looking at shcools?

These are only suggestion of schools that have hispanic acceptance rates but by no means am I asking you to conform. You guys should strive to get into the best schools, irregardless of statistics. Heck I'm applying for USC, but I have some faith and I encourage you guys to have it too.

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Between September 15 and October 15th, we celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month as it is the month when many Latin American countries celebrate their independence from Spain. The term Hispanic, as defined by the U.S. Census Bureau, refers to Spanish-speaking people in the United States of any race. national Hispanic Heritage Month is a national recognition of the culture, contributions and heritage of Hispanic Americans.

But Many times in life we enter another world, another culture and we become something else. What I mean by this is that many times we forget where we have come from, our roots and traditions. We are so afraid of not fitting in that we end up becoming someone that we are not, we stray from everything that we are in hopes of being accepted.

We wash away our pride, traditions, beliefs and even our form of expression but for what? It is true that some of us have come from another country and we have adopted America as our own but that doesn’t mean we should forget where we came from. We hold an invaluable treasure within us, we are different and we should rejoice in that. If people don’t accept you for who you are then you shouldn’t bother trying to be their friends, because those who are truly interested in getting to know you and being your friend will love you just as you are.

So while we celebrate national Hispanic Heritage Month find out about your ancestors, your traditions, and maybe try cooking “a platillo” or traditional food. Knowing where we come from can help us figure out where we are headed.

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Horacio I think that you're right. We do have to think outside of the box, but first we have to get people be a part of our world. That's why having a spanish club allows students to learn about these Hispanic contributors or even start a book club where Spanish literature is read.

Great ideas :]
so let's think outside the box

Hi there,
well I think that maybe setting up a booth where you could sell some traditional food, put up posters, etc would be great to get the school involved. You should talk to a teacher and get them to help. At my former high school, students initiated a Spanish club so that might be the route for you

I disagree with you. I think selling Hispanic food is another way to continue with the stereotype that we are only about food, music, actors. Why not have a book fair with Spanish books or books written by latinos? Or create a list of some latino contributions in science, math, health, music? I think we need to think out of the box!

What do you suggest in terms of celebrating Hispanic Heritage month in our high school? it would be great for everyone to learn about our traditions.

September has arrived quietly but with great stealth. For many this just means that school has started, there is homework and essays to be completed, school and college activities to attend and more responsibilities yet to come. But for many college students, this is the time of the month in which we prepare our application process.

I don’t know why I feel so nervous to apply to universities. I’ve researched, prepared myself tremendously and gone above and beyond prerequisites.
So here’s a small checklist that I’ve made for myself and that can help you as well.

1. Research! Go online to your desired schools webpage and find out the application deadlines.

2. Ask for your transcripts ahead of time. You never know what dilemma your school or college could be going through. You don’t want to take chances.

3. Reach out to old teachers or faculty that know you and ask for recommendation letters. These are extremely important! The opinion that educated people have about you can open doors in high places.

4. Write your personal statement ahead of time. Don’t wait to the last minute. Most of the time this is the only written or “spoken” sample that these educators will see. It needs to be professional! So have teachers and educators edit your personal statements.

5. If you think that you will have financial difficulties covering the application fee to these schools, save up money, do some household chores, whatever is necessary to get your applications in.

I know that for many of us it is a HUGE step forward, but we can do it. There are so many opportunities given to Latinos, we just have to take a closer look and get out of our comfort zone. Nothing is impossible, so don’t limit yourself. Apply everywhere, and once you’re accepted then decide whether going to that school is the right choice or not. APPLY!

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Hey Bianca
I'm friends with Mariela and she suggested that I wrote a comment on your blog! We're in the daunting process of finding a college for my son. Any hints on "Latino seeking colleges" on the East Coast? Any feedback will be greatly appreciated. Saludos. Ana

Carol,
community colleges are great if you want to improve your grades, have a college feel and they open many doors for you. Many colleges have great transfer rates. This is the rate or precentage of transfering students accepted into 4-year universities. The benefit is that you can finish your G.E. and transfer requirements in less that 2 years. I Did, but in a community college you have to push yourself. If he wants to change his grades around, he has to really want it, and get in other activities as well.

Pablo,
in order for you to transfer you have to have completed your G.E and transfer requirements. Transfer requirements are the same for the UC systems and Cal States with minor differences. You can go to your guidance counselor and ask them for this list, to make sure you're on task. As for transfering that depends on when the school you are looking into is accepting applications. You can find all the information online at the school's website. And if you still want to work while studying apply for an internship in your field.

Yolanda,
you should focus on finshing your G.E requirements and checking out what courses transfer to 4-year universities, there is a check list for that. You want to finish both as soon as you can to transfer. You should also plan out your classes and how many you'll take in the semester so that you can plan ahead of time when you can transfer. Each school has different deadlines for applications. For USC deadline for Fall 2010 is october, while Pepperdine's deadline for that same semester is January. So check out the school's website for that information

In a few months I will get my associaties degree from a local community college. I thought I wanted to go to work but I liked school and I want to continue my education. Is there a way for me to transfer now? Or how does it work?

When should you start focusing on your transfer if you are in a junior college?

My son is thinking of going to a community college first because he has bad grades and the guidance counselor told him is a good place to improve grades. Is this true? Will starting in a community college be bad for his college career later?

Doors, windows and lives are busted in the quiet of the night by officers of ICE who are raiding immigrant homes using racial profiling without the proper judicial documentation. As a result, an intense ripple of fear has been echoing in the Latino community for the last few years. And although there is still a desire to achieve higher education and to strive and reach new heights, I feel many of us have allowed fear to become a chain that weigh us down.

These chains disable our vision and drive and encourage Latinos to socially and mentally isolate themselves from the world and its opportunities. To begin living positively is key to success, knowing that this is a mere giant in our road; it can be defeated with the right weapons. Fear has seized our life, but if we dare to unveil our eyes we can defeat it. Once we open our vision again, the ability to see success in others will encourage us and teach us Latinos to use the right weapons.

The opportunity to get to know people, make connections and gain a higher education are thrust from us when we socially isolate ourselves. Fears works as the main cause of Latino’s not reaching their full potential, of separating them from their dreams and aspirations. This website was founded by a woman with an incentive to strive; although there have been obstacles she found a way. So here we all are as a way to help you, to take you out and give you all the opportunities and advantages that millions can only dream of.

I believe that Latinos are special in the way that when we really want something, when our mind, heart and soul are put into it, we achieve it. So where is our Latino pride? Hidden? Let no fear tie you down. This is your life, take the wheel and drive to your success!

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I'm undocumented and the way things are going, I don't know when they will fix my situation. In the meantime, it's hard to find a job because people have started asking a lot more about your status. I'm afraid to even interview and then get deported.

Ximena,
it is a scary world out there but you can't stop yourself from gaining opportunities and reaching for something better. It is imperative that you strive and don't let someone put limits on you.

Thanks for talking about these things. I often think that people have a victim's mentality and don't do enough to move past obstacles

A long time friend, dancer and major role model Mallory Carrillo talks a little about how she achieved her educational goals and what obstacles she had to face.

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1. Could you tell me a little about yourself? What school are you currently in and what are you studying?

My name is Mallory Carrillo, I am nineteen and continuing my second year of education at the University of California at Santa Barbara. I am currently an English major, torn between anthropology and philosophy as minors. On campus, I make ends meet by working at the Music Library as a Music Service Desk Attendant.

2. You live far away from Santa Barbara, why did you choose to go to this school?

I am the second of three daughters in my family, and I was fortunate enough to have an elder sister as my role model. Being ten years older than myself, we had little in common, however; I followed her around and dreamt of one day filling her accomplished shoes. She chose to attend UC Santa Barbara for its well developed Biology program, not to mention its amazing location and paradise-like setting. I vividly remember several of my visits to the campus. Although I was young, I couldn’t picture myself furthering my education anywhere else. The people were friendly, the staff was professional, and even though it was a good three hour drive away from home, it had a warmth to it, a sense of home in which I do not think I would have received anywhere else. Lastly, I have always been a very independent person in all aspects of life, so I felt Santa Barbara was the perfect distance away, not too far from home but far enough.

3. Getting here hasn't been easy; there had been obstacles in your life. Could you tell me a little about those hardships and how you faced them?

Indeed, my life during high school was far from easy. Throughout my four years in high school, I was homeless three times. During these periods, I lived with family for a very short time, mainly motels, and sometimes even with friends. No matter where I stayed, it was dreadful. Motels were not an easy solution, since we never had enough money to pay for the rooms in advance, we lived day by day. So when noon came around my mom would walk around town with our dog and when my sister and I finished school, we would sit in a park and wait for my dad to get out of work. We literally had nowhere we could go, and sometimes my friends would see us and ask why we were walking around instead of going home. I became a pretty good story-teller by the end of the year. And friends, well friends are better off as friends instead of roommates. It would not be long until we were at each others throats, and I lost another close friend. I could sit here and ramble about how difficult it was to pull my clothes out of the back of our car, or to eat fast food every single night because we didn’t have a kitchen, but instead I would rather share with you the lessons I learned by these experiences. I learned to value every possession: those which I earned and those that were given. After having literally everything I owned taken from me, I learned possessions are not love nor can they love you, they are not honor nor can they honor you, they are not respect nor can they respect you. They do not make you the person you are, nor do they define your character. The person you are is the person you make yourself to be, and that it’s not determined by what you own. I learned there are so many more valuable aspects about life, such as smiling, laughing, watching sunsets, loving your family and friends, and especially earning an education.

4. High school wasn't easy, but you still managed to maintain an excellent GPA and were in various activities. How did you do it? What motivated you?

Correct, I graduated in the top three percent of my class with a GPA of 4.2. I was a CSF (California Scholarship Federation) life member, an AP Scholar and I had perfect attendance all four years throughout high school. I was President of the German Club for two years, Secretary of Dance council for two years, a member of class government for three years, a member of Key Club for two years, a CSF member for four years, and I was a Cal High Dancer for four years, two of which I was a part of the Varsity team. With life away from school being so hectic, school was in a sense, my outlet. When I stepped onto that campus, all of the stress about where I was supposed to sleep that night, or which bus I had to take did not matter. I focused on paying attention in my classes, having fun with friends, and just being successful student. My parents never went to college, in fact my mom barely graduated from high school, and watching them struggle throughout my life to make ends meet was my main motivation. My main motivation was, wanting to establish two very important parts of my life, which were security and stability. knew that by achieving a higher education I would be able to create my own security and stability, and no one would be able to strip it away from me, the way my possessions were so often stripped away from me.

5. Now you're here at UCSB, how did you get here? How were you able to afford this?
I know that you now have your own apartment as well.

Yes, I am now at my beloved home, UCSB. In a very simple answer, I like to think I got here with three very important aspects in which I feel describe my character: strength, faith, and passion. I always had the strength to keep on moving, no matter how difficult it was at times. I always had faith in myself and the Lord, because I know He has a plan for me and no matter what He has made me endure, I know He has done so compassionately and with much love. And of course, I have always had passion, a passion for learning, a passion for succeeding, and a passion for thriving especially in a community where opportunities are often overlooked instead of utilized. Financially, it was very difficult to get to where I am today. However, I took advantage of the resources that were presented to me. I filled out a FAFSA which allowed me to receive several grants, scholarships, and made me available to loans. I also received a CSF scholarship which covered my parent contribution, since they were unable to aid me in achieving a higher education. With their lack of help, I was able to become an independent student. I gave up my rights as their child and now I am fully independent and support myself. Although this meant I had to take out more loans, I now no longer have to depend on my parents for support, or lack there of, and I am a few steps closer to creating my own stability and security.

6. What advice, motivation or word can you give those Latinos that are going through what you have gone through?

Throughout my entire life, I was often told, college was out of my reach; not only by family, but by teachers, administrators and even some of my peers. Most of the time, the reason given was that college was too expensive, and sometimes I was even told that “people like me don’t go to college.” People like me—Latino, female, and from a lower-middle class background. I do not believe in stereotypes, and my advice and motivation would be to listen to yourself and to what your heart tells you, not to what others tell you. If your heart longs to be at that University then be there, or if your heart tells you to try community college first, then be there. But do not let what anybody else tells you stop you from achieving what you know you are capable of achieving. I motivate all Latinos to break down that barrier and that stereotype that causes us to fear the future, and instead show everyone that we are intelligent, flourishing, and contributing people to this society and our community. Take it to the limit, and push yourself to be your best, because sometimes you don’t even know what you’re capable of attaining.


7. We've known each other for a very long time, and it was always apparent that you valued education, you were never absent from school, but sometimes we forget how important education is. Could you describe why education is so important to Latinos?

Education is truly the gateway to achieving your dreams. I have dreams of owning a house and providing for my family, security and stability and the only way I know of reaching these dreams is through the beautiful gift of education. Education is important to everyone, but it is especially important to Latinos because it is far too often that we are overlooked as a society for whatever reasons, we are poor or we are a minority—so that automatically makes us ignorant and unskilled, even lazy. But the Latinos of today, pushing to make a statement in this world, know that we are diligent, fervent, and enduring. However, some people still deny this truth. By gaining a higher education, we obtain the tools that allow us to lay down a path to our own success, so we can show everyone that we are powerful people. Education is important to Latinos because we have the character to work hard, and we just need the tools to finish the job and education is our greatest tool

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Lito,
yes college is in your reach. If your grades aren't as good then you can always go to a community college and then transfer to a 4-year. But don't go into a technical career if that's not what you want. I encourage you to talk to counselors, check out college and technical schools. Ask how much it costs, what you need to enter, etc.

Some people tell me that college is within my reach and some tell me that I should go to technical school because I don´t have very good grades. I´m nto sure what I want to studey. I seem to be good with my hadns and sometiems think that studying something like automechanic would be better. Where can I find more info about my options?

I like your interviews.They are very inpsirational to us. I'm in my freshman year and money is very tight at home. Sometimes I think I will end up quittin and getting ajob and other times I say to myself i have ot persevere and push through. Stories like this keep me going. Thanks you guys!

Julie,
for me it is a blessing to know that I can motivate you to continue. Getting your education is tough, but I promise you it's worth it. With a degree you can go anywhere and do anything.

Don't stop :]

And it's good so that every Latino knows, it can be done!

I agree with Susan, Mallory is a wonderful role model for students and for adults alike. I wish more people like her would be featured in the news. That way youngsters will know that there are lots of solutions to their problems and ways of seeing your situation that can lead you out of it. Thanks for sharing your story!

this is a loooooooong interview!!!!!!! but I enjoyed everybit of it. Who will you interview next?

Wow! I am so impressed with your ability to overcome such horrible circumstances and to be a terrific inspiration. I have no doubt that you will succeed at whatever you do. Good luck with continuing your education!!

These are the stories that I want to share with everyone, because it shows that everything and anything is possible.

Read her interview, and share it with friends. Who knows if this is the motivation that they needed to overcome an obstacle.

Thank you so much Susan! It's a wonderful experience for me to know that someone thinks I am inspirational, since I have been fortunate enough to have so many inspirational people in my life. I appreciate your good wishes. :)

As you all know, I write a new blog every week in hopes of reaching Latinos, answering readers’ questions, and initiating a theme of debate and conversation. But I haven’t opened my heart to tell you why, why I write every week with a childish anticipation of having a new reader leave a comment on my blog.

My main goal behind these short blogs is to instigate change, to encourage and push Latinos to achieve something greater for their lives. I want to break the barriers and stereotypes that stigmatize us, I want to be a voice in our community, but more importantly I want to give you the tools and inspiration necessary for you to gain back the power in your own voice. So many statistics speak against our culture, with high school drop out and teen pregnancy rates among them, but that can all change. Being a Latino doesn’t mean things have to be tough, we as a community and individuals of such are blessed to be tough. We have so many opportunities in this life, why not use them accordingly? I am a Latina, I’m tough, and I get what I want because I am ambitious and because I know my worth. But do you know your worth?

Our education is everything—it is the doorway to success and prosperity. Education is a golden embellishment in our garments that we should wear with pride. Look around you. Do you see the gangs and violence? Do you see your peers dropping out of school? How many young Latina moms do you see? Yes, we become discouraged at these statistics and at the cruel reality, yet we immerse ourselves in all the bad and forget to see the good. Thousands of Latinos are gaining an education, working as professionals in all fields, striving to teach their children the steps towards success. Most of us are breaking barriers, but there are many more that have yet to join this cause.

While chasing your dream, don’t walk, run to it! Because you can do it. We are blessed to be tough; we are intelligent and successful people. So start believing it, start running towards your education. There is nothing like that beautiful glow education brings to our lives. So tune your chords, bathe them in literature and prose, fill your lungs with the air of your culture, and let your voice ring loud and true: break the barriers, be tough.

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Yanira,
that is exactly what I want everyone to know. It can be done. I would love to interview you, get another perspective of the struggles of latino students.

Congratulations on achieving a higher education

I finished school while being a first time mom and believe me it wasn't easy. But if you want it bad you can do anything you set your mind too!!!

My brothers didn't finish school but I intend to finish it. I will be the first in my family to go to college!

Horacio,
I wish only the best for you, that you continue college and that you strive foward. You can do it! So never give up.

Hi Gillian,
it's never too late to further your education, whenever the time is right I encourage you to finish your GED. There are plenty of ways to do so through night classes, online classes and some schools have daycares so that might be a good route for you.

I can only imagine how hard it is to have a baby at such a young age, but I know you can do it. Have more faith in yourself, you'll get there.

Because you are tough :]

Hi Carlos,
it is very unfortunate that many Latinos turn to gangs, but the truth is that there are millions of opportunities for children to stay off the streets. There are many hardships in many neighborhoods, but there are resources that young teens and adults can find to further their education and have a successful life.

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I like your blog Bianca, is very inspiring. Unfortunately, I got pregnant at 16 and now have a baby so I dropped out of school. But I'm looking at fininshing my studies and maybe getting a GED. I heard there are programs for teenage mothers. I try to regain my strenght and then go back to school. Is very very hard to have a baby

Gangs are really the worst option but sometimes, they get to you and it's hard to say no. I think we should help our friends find better things to do with their time and life

You go girl! :-)

For a few people, deciding what school to go to is a simple question they know the answer to. Yet the majority of us are still baffled by this question, and we fall into another category where our minds are inundated by a multitude of unanswerable questions: What school is the right one? How do I choose? The decision of our future weighs heavy on our mind as it whirls and creates patterns of thought, decisions and even more questions to answer. Choosing the right school involves various facts such as: the major you’re interested in, types of scholarships offered at the school, what kind of community you want at school, and if you want to stay close to home or go far away.

1.It is a great help to know what you want to study and major in. Not every school is specialized, renowned, or accredited in your field of study. You should research what the curriculum of your major is in each school. Many schools create forums for prospective and interested students so that they can communicate with students already attending the school. This is a helpful tool in gathering facts, and you can find someone studying in your same field and ask them questions—this can help you become more informed.

2.Find out what scholarships, loans and funds are available for you. Certain schools generate scholarships for specific majors. There are also outside associations that pay students going into a specific field, such as: medicine, theater, dance, journalism, teaching, etc. You will want to apply to these in addition to the FAFSA and Pell Grant.

3. Ask yourself what kind of community you want to live in while you go to college. Do you want to be in a large school with a high student to teacher ratio? Or do you prefer a small campus with a small student to teacher ratio? You might value a sense of community, especially if you come from a tight-knit family or town. A community with religious, political and social values might be important to you as well. I recommend actually visiting the school, in addition to doing research, in order to see if its community is right for you.

4. Others base their choice of school on their preference of either staying close to home or going away. For those who stand in between, there are many schools that offer study abroad opportunities—they are a great way to stay close by most of the time, yet have the experience to travel for a semester or a year. If your parents are scared of you leaving home, try to make them comfortable with the idea. I know it sounds weird, but I want to encourage you to do so. Research as much as you can about the school, its surrounding areas, campus security, etc. Then sit down with your parents and talk about these issues. It will help calm their fears and make them more comfortable.

Never limit yourself while choosing the right college. Money isn’t always the issue—there are thousands of scholarships, loans and grants available but you have to knock on doors. Like my mom always says, “El ‘no’ ya lo tenés (tienes), buscate el ‘SI’.” In other words, find the “yes” because you already have the “no.” We’ll talk about scholarships in a different blog. For now, check out this site, created especially for minority groups: <a href="http://www.theclic.net">www.theclic.net.</a>.

Let me know if this blog helped! Leave a comment if you have a specific question you want addressed and I’ll be sure to answer. So go ahead, choose your college!

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You seem to have it all together, like you were not nervous about going to college, I'm so nervous about starting. I'll be a freshman this fall and I'm the first one in my family to go to college so they don't know much how to make me feel less nervous

Hey JJ,
the truth is that I was nervous upon first entering college but with time you get over it, you gain confidence and you realize, hey I'm one step closer to finishing my education.

What helped me was the fact that I started at a community college and I'll be transferring soon, so going to a larger college is somewhat nerve-wracking but exciting.

My advice, take all of these wonderful experiences in, you'll do fine. Promise :D
Just know where you want to go, and how you're going to get there.

Hi Vilma,
it's good that your son has goals to go to UCLA, I believe that you should encourage him to apply to this school and others as well. Now you ask, what if that's not the best school him, and there is no real answer to that. You should ask him why he wants to attend this school. The best school for him will be the school that has a good curriculum for his major and where he feels comfortable. You want to encourage him and be there all the way in his college career.
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Hi Pedro,
in order to find out what schools have a good curriculum for your major you should research. You can research this information online, by calling these colleges, asking counselors, even visting them are all good ideas.

Hi Ginamaria,
it's unfortunate that you are so far from these colleges. In that case you should contact the schools and ask for brochures, sign up for school forums,and check out the school websites because a lot of times they have virtual tours of their campus. I hope this helps and if you need anything else just leave a comment!

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My son is a freshman and he already knows he wants to go to UCLA. I don't know who put it in his mind but he has decided. What if that is not the bes tschool for him?

Is there any place where I can find out what schools are good for what majors?

I live in a rural area and there are no colleges near by and it's very expensive to fly to the ones I would liek to attend. How do you choose if you can't see the place? Any idea will be welcome. Thanks Bianca, I like your blogs and will check back soon

I was able to sit down and talk with a close friend, fellow musician and more importantly a Latino in college. David Daniel Diaz, proud Salvadorian, is currently studying at M.I (Musicians Institute) in Hollywood in hopes of becoming recognized for his drumming skills. So here are a few Q & A´s that might help all the aspiring musicians out there.



1. Would you call drumming your passion?
A: I don´t what else to call it! It´s what I love to do and I wouldn´t be doing anything else! I´m the happiest when playing. 


2. What was your first encounter with a drum set like?
A: Well, I was 9 yrs old and always liked watching the church drummer play. One day I asked the worship leader if there was any way that I could start learning the drums, my first door opened. I went to my first rehearsal that week that being the first time I had ever touched a drum set. It was love at first sight.


3. When did you know that you wanted to do this as your career?
A: Well after playing for about 1 or 2 years I knew it was something that I loved to do. I would be sad If I didn´t get to play drums! So at that point I knew it was something that was going be a part of my life forever, at 13 I decided that I wanted to make music my career. This was also when I discovered the school Musicians Institute which then became the college of my dreams! 


4. You went to college at first but It wasn´t your thing, when did you decide to enroll in M.I?
A: Yes I went to PCC, Pasadena City College, I was just out of high school and there were a lot of financial Issues with my family at the time. It was then that I began wasting my time, letting my life slip. I enrolled for school but I never went! I would leave my house in the morning and head straight to my friend´s house, I would stay at his house all day until I was "out" of school, then I´d come back home. The whole time my parents thought that I was at school. I did it just so they would stay off my back..But then I really stopped caring about myself, my dad then kicked me out of the house. I spent a whole month pretty much on the streets, going from friend´s house to friend´s house and trying to get some food, just a place to stay everyday. I never would´ve thought that those would be things I had to worry about until then. During that time I realized that I had to stop wasting time with my life, it was time to put my life back in order. I came back home, applied for MI and within a week I got accepted, it has completely changed my life around!! 


5. M.I. Is an expensive school, how were you able to afford it?
A: well, it´s funny because before I had applied my dad lost his job; my mom was the only one working. But I applied, even though I didn´t know how I was going pay for school! But I did it anyway! About a week after I got accepted, my dad found a great job that allowed us to pay for my school!! . It was awesome! I felt like I was doing the right thing at the right time for the first time in my life!! To top it all off, it had been a childhood dream, and in less than a month it became a reality. I was ready to go to my dream school, I came in with a whole new mindset, different from previous years at school I went in with the desire to work extra hard!


6. Now being In M.I. what does it feel like?
A: well, I am past the half way point already, entering the final phase of the school. My experience here has been unreal!! It was much more than I expected and the people I have met here, including the staff and students are people that I will know the rest of my life! These people also become my connections for jobs as a musician. You have to meet as many people as you can here because you never know when the person you just met could be the one that gets you the gig you´ve always wanted. My musicianship has grown tremendously upon entering the school. I learn something new everyday and I´m always inspired by my teachers, to keep getting better and moving forward with my musical career! I try to enjoy every second of it.

7. What struggles have you faced while being in this school and being practically the only Latino?
A: Something that happens to a lot of musicians is that when they start music school is that there is so much information being thrown at you everyday, that it´s easy to forget why you love music so much in the first place! I always try to keep in mind my love for music and drums, which is the main reason I came to this school. You can never forget who you are because that is what will separate you from the rest. As long as you remind yourself everyday who you are and mix it in with everything else you´ve learned you´ll go far. I am one of the few Hispanics at the school primarily because of the cost. Unfortunately, in my opinion, there aren´t a lot of Hispanics out there that think music is a career from which you can make good money, or it´s hard to be successful in. By being the only Hispanic it feels like a responsibility to my race to be successful!! =] There aren´t a lot of us that make it big in the music world, so I´m hoping I´ll be one of the few that breaks those barriers;] so it kind of drives me by being one of the few Hispanics at MI.


8. How did you "find" Jayar? How did you find these opportunities to get out there as a drummer?
A: One thing I can tell musicians that are trying to get their name out is to play anything and everything you possibly can!! . I try to play in every opportunity that comes up, especially here at school! We have Live playing Workshops at school; there are different genres of music and a song belonging to each genre. You sign up for the song and show up at the time and place scheduled. You play the song with a whole band of students you´ve never met before! So I try to sign up for all the styles that I´m not really used to playing and the styles that I do love to play. At school we are also able to find bands that need musicians, so when I went to the desk to sign up the receptionist instantly recognized me and said ‘hey you´re famous! Everyone wants to play with you!´
I was so amazed at this; he then gave me info on a guy that he said would be perfect for my style. I called and that was when I met Joe Little, (guitarist in Jayar) he sent me some tracks to mess with and I liked it so much that I wrote my own drum parts for them. We got together and jammed, which was when I met the rest of the band, and we had great musical chemistry!! It felt like we´d been playing together for years! That was about 6 or 7 months ago and we´ve already gone on tour and were just finishing up our new demo that should be coming out sometime in September or October! We´re really excited about that!

9. And finally what would you tell aspiring drummers or musicians. How can they succeed in such a competitive environment? How can they pay for this school?
A: All I can say is that it´s not easy to be a successful musician. Well, it´s never easy to be successful period. It takes hard work. You have to envision yourself being successful even if it´s nowhere in sight! It takes a lot of faith, passion, and ambition.
On paying for the school, the truth is I don´t even know how I´ve paid for it thus far but I do know that when you want something bad enough and you truly, truly want it, not just wanting something like a new car, but really want something with all your heart, you will always find the way. Where there is a will there is a way! Financial aid, loans, and scholarships are always available. There are plenty of ways to do what you want to do.

For more information on M.I. (Musicians Institue) click on the school´s link: http://www.mi.edu/
And if you´re interested in hearing a little music from David´s band, Jayar follow this link: http://www.myspace.com/jayarspace

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I read this interview and as another proud salvadorean is nice to hear that one of us is making an effort to be somebody and to make something of your life, and not wasting your time in gangs and stuff. Continue doing what your doing and I hope that other salvadoreans take this interview as an inspiration to better themselves because I'm so sick and tired of hearing people say that we are only known as gang members when there're many of us that are really tryi g hard to make a good name for our country EL SALVADOR. I wish you the best and remember GUANACOS para siempre

This is inspiring. I always want to be a musician and my parents tell me there is no future there. I will show them this interveiw

Are there any music schools in Chicago that I can go to? I want to study guitar. And where can i find more music by Jayar?

let me tell you something else Jean Paul, my dad was and still is a musician, he´s worked in BMG, Fonovisa and Sony, so yes there are jobs. Music is an open book, you have so many chapters do discover. You can teach music, play music with a band, write your own music, be a part of a label, you just need to look for all these opportunities, interniships. :]

you can do it

Hey Aurelio,
well if you give me your email i can send you the sites of some music schools over there in Chicago that might be helpful. About JAYAR just follow the myspace link at the bottom of the interview. They should be updating their music pretty soon, the newer versions have David's drumming, a violinist and lots more, so continue to check out and support their page.

Great interview, Bianca!

Stereotypes are as prevalent as the air we breathe. Today in society not only do we deal with economic, social, and physical pressures but with academic pressures as well. A common misconception pinned on Latino students is that we are not as intelligent or hardworking as other cultures. Teachers and professors have a preconceived notion: “This kid is going to be hard to deal with” or “I wonder what gang he´s in” maybe even “to teach him is going to be hard.” Now take for instance Asians. The stereotype of this group is that they are smart, good in math, very competitive and focused in academics, so the expectations teachers have of them is higher than the expectations they have of Latino students. The sad truth is that yes, some teachers might be thinking that we are not interested in school or smart to go to a great college, but the sadder truth is that we allow ourselves to believe this. Latinos are very intelligent people and when we set our vision and heart on something we achieve it, we are known to be fighters so why when it comes to academics do we shy away? Not all parents motivate us to succeed in academics but they most certainly don´t dream of their children being criminals. So are you willing to step up? Will you dare break through your comfort zone and connect with people who can motivate and support your dreams? Ultimately, are you ready to break the mold?

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I think stereotypes are really hard to break since a lot of people tend to see others based on stereotypes already established and do not bother to meet and get to know people. An individual that takes the time to meet a person and understand what they are about are more worth your time than those who immediately judge. Us latinos are stereotyped (like many other ethnic groups) and we also tend to be stereotyped among our own latino/a communities i.e. puertoricans, dominicans, mexicans, etc. We must all move forward and continue doing the great job each of us know how to do and disregard any negative judgements others may give us. Don't let stereotypes ever stop you. Always work hard and strive with your goals and ALWAYS keep our culture and traditions sacred through generations to come. Let's be proud of who we are!

to juan carlos, if you want to go to an engineer school do so, don´t let anyone stop you. It might help if you looked up some schools around your area and really researched, maybe even visit the schools. Let me tell you, counselors although help don´t know everything so maybe you can find information and share it with him or her. I don´t know what your grades are like but that might be a reason why, it might be because of money but there are A LOT of scholarships for latinos. :]

asians tend to be top of the class because to study and to do good in school is part of their culture and they are very very enforced. That is what they´re life usually consists of. Like I had written in my blog, stereotypes are set such as asians being very studious. You should always strive to impress yourself, your family and if you´re a believer, your god. Hispanics are top of the class, but they really work for it...

My guidance counselor is always telling me I should enroll in a technical school but i want to be an engineer. I´m not sure who to ask about this and she insists that i´m not ready for engineer school. Is this because I´m hispanic??? I have 2friends who are in the same situation in other schools

then why Asians are always at the top of their class? Are you saying is just because the teachers expet more of them?????

Culture has been given to us by traditions, societal norms and ancestors. Although society is constantly changing I´ve realized that some things never change; our culture. It is almost innate, born from within and follows us even through death. These thoughts came to me when I was asked to teach about culture in my psychology class and as I taught I whisked up my experiences and memories I made my classmates laugh talking about my traditions. At that moment in time I was able to unify my world and classmates. Realization coursed through me as blood runs through my veins and it hit me, I was blessed to be a Latina and to share my amazing historical background, traditions and language. Although I´m Argentine by heritage and not by birth, I still feel linked to the Argentine/Latino culture, and to be able to share it with others makes the world and my surroundings a better place. You might think: How can sharing cultural values change the world? It changes because you change; you have now become the educator, the professor that opens the door to new knowledge. I encourage you to speak out, teach your friends and acquaintances about the beauty and splendor of your culture. Paint a picture with your words; let the rich background be the colors, your life the canvas, and your mouth the art gallery. Educate the world, while you continue to educate yourself.

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Culture is so beautiful and important in each of us as individuals, whether we are latinos/as or any other ethnic group. Culture defines who we are, where we come from and what we value in our families and communities. Always be proud of it, ignore the ignorance. I pride my self from teaching my children what my mother and grandmother taught me as a child, and what my community and society taught me when I was growing up, and I pride from being raised the way I did whether others like it or not. Latino/a culture is beautiful is so many different ways, embrace it!!!

Cristina, my main advice: it doesn´t matter what people think or say. What matters is that you strive to become better, to educate yourself and attain your dreams. You know your family and yourself, how hard you work and sadly there are a lot of ignorant people out there but don´t let them crust your dreams! When people don´t accept you it´s because those people aren´t mean to be around you. By this i mean that you should always surround yourself with positive people who support you. When people don´t accept you, walk away and prove them wrong :]

Yeah, you share your culture and they think youre not american! I´m constantly being told i´m a "f... mexican" and why dont´ i go back to my country! My family work hard and not do harm to anyone. Sometimes looks like my culture scare people. What you do when people not accept you?

Right now I´m at Rio Hondo Community College, taking summer school, and ultimately getting ready to transfer.
I´ve worked really hard to get the grades I have and to finish my college credits but now I have to take one more step: transferring.
I´m really close to my mom and family, we all live together and form an integral part of each others lives so, for now, going too far from home is out of the question.
So as I prepare myself to transfer, I´ve begun to check out scholarships for my major, asking questions to professors in my field, doing a journalism internship, all while dancing.
It all seems somewhat overwhelming but I realized it´s just a phase. These trials and experiences can only make me stronger and more prepared for my future. I know that many take summer as a chance to relax but I´ve taken it as a chance to step up and take some summer courses, have a job, and try new things.
So this summer I encourage you to find the answers to your questions, look for help, do something interesting, advance your future.
Take this time to help yourself now that you´re not too busy.

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Leslie, my next blog will be what college to choose. Just for you and all those wondering.

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My daughter is back from school for the summer and she´s been spending time with the family. I think that´s a great way to recharge her batteries. So that when she goes away, she takes all the love we´ve showered her with!

Can you write something about how to figure out what college to choose?

ok Julia well if i were you I would apply yo all of the dream school and places that you want to go. Ultimately it is your future and you are the greatest key to success. So if I were you gather all the important details about the schools that you want to go to and share them with your parents. You want to invite them to the world where you want to be in, this will make them more comfortable with the idea of you going far away :]

hope this helps

My case is the opposite. I live in Ann Arbor, Michigan and my parents want me to stay close to home but I want to apply to several colleges that are out of state. There´s so much pressure for me to stay here and the only thing i want is to have the experience of going away..... heeeeeeeeelp!!!!!!

Hey there julia, so yes I am in the SAME boat as you. Universities are not distinguished by being close to one another, but instead miles and hours apart from eachother. I would do the following, apply to all the schools you want to go to, that are prestigiuos in your field, whether it be in Michigan or out of state. Ultimately it is your future and career and you can't limit your possibilities of success. So apply to all of the schools you are interested in and get to know them. Once you get to know these schools you can talk to your parents and let them know the schools as well, it's all about comfort for them. :]

hope this helps

as time goes on and life changes you realize that maybe yes... going away for a different enviroment is a good thing :]

Queridi­sma. Me alegra mucho tu decision de encarar tu futuro. Te deseo y auguro EXITOS mUCHOS BESOS

Hola Bianca
Go girl, you are heading to a bright future. Your mom is extremly proud of you. I wish you the best.

Virginia (mom´s friend)

I felt the same way about not going far away but in the end I was admitted at a university far from my house and even if it was very hard to make the decision I wouldn´t change it. Its been a great experience and maybe you would enjoy it too!

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